If we can’t have what we love ..we must love what we have

If we can’t have what we love ..we must love what we have

I’ve been repeating this sentence many time everyday since I had this very bad destructive feelings all over my body and soul. I need to remind myself about the fact that I can’t have everything I want, which is hard, since I got everything I wanted so far. That’s why I can’t accept this fact easily. And also it’s hard for me cause what I wanna have is not just a thing, it’s actually a very very special thing to me..
I know it’s not fair to us, but that’s life anyway.. And I hope we’re ganna make it…Until then, Goodbye

I can see the pain living in your eyes
And I know how hard you try
You deserve to have so much more
I can feel your heart and I sympathize
And I’ll never criticize
All you’ve ever meant to my life
I don’t want to let you down
I don’t want to lead you on
I don’t want to hold you back
From where you might belong
You would never ask me why
My heart is so disguised
I just can’t live a lie anymore
I would rather hurt myself
Than to ever make you cry
There’s nothing left to say but goodbye
You deserve the chance at the kind of love
I’m not sure i’m worthy of
Losing you is painful to me
I don’t want to let you down
I don’t want to lead you on
I don’t want to hold you back
From where you might belong
You would never ask me why
My heart is so disguised
I just can’t live a lie anymore
I would rather hurt myself
Than to ever make you cry
There’s nothing left to say but goodbye
You would never ask me why
My heart is so disguised
I just can’t live a lie anymore
I would rather hurt myself
Than to ever make you cry
There’s nothing left to try
Though it’s gonna hurt us both
There’s no other way than to say goodbye

My All-Time-Favorite romantic movies

1. P.S. I Love You (2007)

 

 

Hilary Swank as ( Holy) & Gerard Butler as (Gerry)

I literally was crying from the first 5 minutes of the movie till the end of it! It is without a doubt the most beautiful romantic movie I’ve ever seen before.. The story is just so great, I can’t imagine myself living in such a story and such a situation! It’s ganna make u so emotional while u’r watching it…

 

2.  Pretty Woman (1990)

 

 

 

Julia Roberts as (Vivian ) & Richard Gere as (Edward )

I can’t get enough of this movie, Julia Roberts is one of my favorite actress and this particular movie is one of her best.. I always loved the transmission of a lady to the best, it makes me feel that everything can be fixed and LOVE can change a lot indeed. 

 

 

 

 

 

3.  Twilight (2008 )

 

 

 

Kristen Stewart as (Bella) & Robert Pattinson as (Edward)

OMG, I’ve never thought I would actually find a movie that will replace Breakfast at Tiffany’s rank in my list! I think it’s a great unique bloody strong love story.. you can actually feel how strong it is cuz u really ganna want their love to survive regardless of their situation.

It made me wish having my own vampire, who will watch me sleeping every night & climb trees with me everyday

 

4.   Breakfast at Tiffany’s (1961)

Audrey Hepburn as (Holy) & George Peppard as (Paul)

One of my all time favorite movies ever.. I adore Audrey so much that I watched all of her movies.. this one particularly I watched it for like 20 times since I was a kid and I cant get enough of it, beside George Peppard has such a pretty face to look at

 

 

 

5.  The Notebook (2004)

Ryan Gosling as (Noah) & Rachel McAdams as (Allie)

A deeply romantic story about young love as it grows and endures through wars and parental dissent. If you were crazy about romantic movie  as myself, this one definitely should be among your collection. Everything is very spectacular in the scenes. It’s really a well done movie

 

 

6.  Titanic

 

 

 

Kate Winslet as (Rose) & Leonardo DiCaprio as (Jack)

Can’t have a romantic movie list without Titanic in it, right? I don’t even have to say anything about it. It’s one of those movies that will be stuck in you’re memory for the whole of your life.

 

 

7.  You’ve Got Mail (1998 )

Tom Hanks as (Joe) & Meg Ryan as (Kathleen)

Such a sweet movie… I love Meg Ryan & Tom as well, they  two made a great couple.. I’m one from those who found their special someone online and lived some lovely moment through mails.. so this movie is special for me  

 

 

 

 

 

8.  The Truth About Cats & Dogs (1996)

Janeane Garofalo as (Abby), Uma Thurman as (Noelle) & Ben Chaplin as (Brian)

Romantic comedy movies have always been my choice of watching every time. And this one is definitely the most great one I love the story, I love the characters, I love everything about it… I feel so connected to Abby when I was younger, the first time I saw the movie, and I instantly loved it.. back then I had some low self-esteem issues and Abby was representing “me” basically anyway this is history now.

 

 

 

9.  How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)

Kate Hudson as (Andie) & Matthew McConaughey as (Ben)

Another perfect couple with a great chemistry.. kate and Matthew “the man I LOOOOVE <3″ he’s soooo yummy I can eat him alive ;p seriously the movie is wonderful and so funny.. and I love it

 

 

10. Something’s Gotta Give (2003)

Diane Keaton as (Erica) & Jack Nicholson as (Harry)

I’ve wrote about this one before, in my previous entry I guess, and I love it because its so spontaneous and funny

 

 

 

 

me grumpy!!!

It’s really weird how my life rhythm changes suddenly, once its down and after a day or two  its up then BAAAAM! its down again! Its like a series of surprises that I can’t handle anymore… I mean I wish if I had like a pager that peeps whenever something will happen to warn me about what’s coming next so I can be prepared for it, that would be cool..

Anyway, I’m in my “up” days now and I’m enjoying it so far… I don’t really have so much to talk about it, although a lot of things happened in such a short time, but if anyone notice, I don’t talk a lot about my happy moments in here as much as I talk about my boring problems and sad stories! And I don’t have a particular reason for that nor doing it on purpose, I just tend to.. I don’t know why… but somehow, writing sooth me whenever I’m down, it’s like discharging my body from all that angers and stresses that I’m burden by.. and since I’m terrible in expressing my true feeling orally, I just writing it down in here and sharing it with other people as well.. without putting myself in an awkward situation while I’m crying in front of them whenever I’m telling one of my crappy stories.. so blogging about it is a good way for a self-conscious girl like me. but that shows me as a grumpy pessimstic person and i’m not like that at all.. it just I don’t get to the writting mood unless I’m upset !

Yesterday I was watching “Something’s Gotta Give” on MBC MAX, wasn’t my first time  watching it, but I like this movie so much and I can’t get enough of it, there is nothing special about it, but I just feel so connected to Diane Keaton’s character “Erica Barry”. cause whenever she react over something she remind me of myself so much! There is one particular scene when she was weeping like crazy while she’s typing on her laptop, and the ideas just flow from her mind to her fingers so quickly although she was sad crying! I kept saying: that’s me, she’s me !!! LOL I know she seemed like a crazy woman but I mean yeah sometimes I do cry and clean my room in the same time, or cry and jogging on the trade mill, or write as I said before… and it seems that I do better job whenever I’m in such a mood.. I’m that kind of person who like to squeeze out the best from the worse, the person who hunt every opportunity to get what’s good for her even in the strangest situation and strangest places. But at the same time living the moment as it should be lived. So aside from her quiet life of professional fulfillment and romantic disappointment, there is hysterical crying over a sad hurtful thing while typing a story yeah definitely she’s me ..!

freaky sunday

Sunday was a complicated day for me cause a lot of things kept happen so quickly, and each thing has its own  different surprise, feeling and emotion.. I mean it was a long crazy day, and what made it so long and exhausted that I didn’t sleep the night before and I didn’t prepare myself well for my presentation that I talked about previously, because I was in a really bad mood and I barley could stay alive.. yeah seriously

Anyway thanks god I could stand on my feet that day and dragged myself to the university, I spent the first hour of the morning talking to Amani my friend and telling her what happened to me last night, then I went to the radiotherapy class, and it went so good actually! From the moment the doctor showed up she notice me and said: come sit close to me Suzy, let me see what you bring us today.. I was so scared and embarrassed cause I did nothing actually but reading it for a couple of time and that’s it..I didn’t prepare myself to stand up in front the whole class and explain every little thing I wrote in details! My morale was in the bottom and I was so emotionally hurt from the night before, so I was ready to tell her just take the papers and give me any mark u want.. but quitting is not my thing I suppose, so I ended up letting her to tell me what to do..

So I was explain what I wrote to her quietly and pointing to some important parts and stuff and she just loved it.. and instantly gave me a full mark I was so happy and relieved at the time and I thought that’s it, my work is done.. but NO way :S I still had to play the doctor role for the day.. the girls in the class knew about me before, so they tried to convince her to reschedule for me but that just made me feel worse so I did it anyway.

And I’m proud to say that it went so good, cause after I finished she stand up , clapped for me while she walked toward me and started to complement me in a very cheerful way, I was blushing and excited I didn’t expect that she would really love my oral presentation and I’m in such a bad mood!! I was so glad that I did impress her  and now every time she see me she call me Dr. Suzy LOOOL It’s really amazing.

So after all, I had my time for a moment but that wasn’t the end of the day, cause immediately after that I had the worst, horrible, most hurtful phone call conversation in my whole life that I’ve never thought that I would ever had it!!! which made me so sad and tired again! And it continued till I back home… I was crying all the afternoon and reconsidering some things in my life..

There are some people around me, even close to me who I thought they were trust worthy, I shared a lot with them, my secrets, my stories, my loyalty, honesty and caring.. I gave them almost everything.. and what do I get back from them? Lying! Cheating? And more lying!!!! I always thought that I have a very good evaluation for people, and my intuitions always came true. But now, I realized that some people are an excellent actors, and they know how to play their roles very well, and how to get what they want whenever they want so easy.. even if it means that they should break you’re heart by breaking all the rules.

It’s not like I’ve never know they were existing, but I didn’t know that they would get me!!! I thought I’m smart enough to find out about those kind of people before they hurt me! But no, cause believe me some have a PHD. In acting, and they are all over around you.

Back to my freaky Sunday, my best friend Ferfer came at 6 pm. And I was really happy to see her at the time. I needed to see an old best friend who you know that you could run to them whenever you want and always find them there for you. We talked a lot and catch up what missing and it was so much fun and relieving for me

So by the night I became calm and relaxed enough to make some decisions I had to made.. so I ended some hanged issues and I took a short break from some.. which I think it might be a very long break actually.. and time will heal my wounds for sure.

Teasing msg from lolla :S

another teasing msg from medO :S if i had a dollar everytime some one ask me that question

Pleasant Morning now and on :)

I just LOVE my schedule for  this semester, I’ve never had an off for two days in a row before. Well, actually I’ve never had an off for any day before :S  so I’m really enjoying myself with this new routine .. I don’t feel the pressure I usually feel every week before.. I will have an enough time to do my homework’s and researches without any rush.. and the important reason of all that I can enjoy my morning for four days in a row instead of two not forgetting that now I could go to Jeddah more often, which means more FUN TIMES .. pretty cool right

 

I heart waking up early morning watching the dawn rise outside, having a walk, feeding the cats and play around the house with them (sounds like an old cartoon scene) *LOL* but yeah really, the cats outside door used to get food from me every morning so they gather everyday just waiting for me… then I like to relax on my favorite comfort fluffy couch in the living room, having my breakfast and sipping my minty green tea, usually searching the net.. since it’s a good time for doing researches  for university and stuff cause I’m always in a good mood in the morning specially when I had a very good sleeping hours the night before.. And yeah , did I mention that I don’t suffer from insomnia any more  so I hope I wont ever have it again … and of course my pleasant day wouldn’t complete without listening to my slow music.. kenny G, Josh Groban  or Michael Buble are my favorite for this time of the day…  

 I love my wall color but now Im bored from it and i want to change it as soon as I can but i still don’t know what color should i choose yet. any suggesting?

she’s trying my shoes.. yeah i have a big feet !

home made cookie .. so yummy

I’m in a very good mood today and I feel that I want to do every thing I had to do earlier before but I didn’t because of the lack of time and motivation.. so I’m going to start with school stuff first so I can get rid of all its burdens.. I have this big presentation I have to do for the whole two hours of the lecture on Sunday for Radiotherapy course, and I’m feeling butterfly in my stomach every time I think about it.. I’ve never felt so nerves about doing presentations but this time I guess it’s a bit different than before because the doctor in charge of this course is new and I have to make a good first impression and I think I’m good in that but it’s just I wasn’t expecting to do this kind of presentation very soon and in a such short notice.. And what made it worse that she picked me to be the first one to do it :S the girls were laughing at me since it came as a shock  for me when she said: Suzan! but any way I work well under pressure and I will do my best.. and hopefully I will impress them..

obviously I can’t play guitar